Having surgery can be stressful and scary, especially for a child. You can do a lot to help your child stay calm and get ready for the procedure.
Having surgery can be stressful and scary, especially for a child. You can do a lot to help your child stay calm and get ready for the procedure.First, learn all you can about the surgery. Having a good understanding of the surgery will help you better convey information to your child. Ask your child's healthcare providers to explain what will happen before, during, and after surgery.Older children may want to take a more active role in their care. Encourage them to ask questions. To help better explain the surgery, try using educational videos, anatomy books, or other visual aids.If possible, take a tour of the hospital with your child. It can help your child get more familiar with the setting. Younger children, in particular, can become distressed by the change in environment and routine.It's also important to keep your child calm. Reducing anxiety before surgery can help your child feel better after it. So stay calm yourself. Children often look to their parents for guidance on how to behave.Distract your child if needed. Try using toys, books, puzzles, or music. Let older children keep their phones with them where possible so they can play games or stay in touch with friends. Pack some comfort items from home for the hospital stay, such as a stuffed animal, favorite toy, or video game.And soothe your child as needed. Try holding, singing to, or simply staying close to your child. Younger children are especially prone to separation anxiety.When talking with your child about the surgery use age-appropriate language. Don't be too graphic or detailed with younger kids. Focus on only what your child will directly experience. Be honest, but gentle. Don't say something won't hurt afterward when it may.Be positive about the surgery. Tell your child it will help him or her feel better. Don't frame it as a punishment and always listen to your child. If your child has concerns and fears, don't judge. Tell him or her it's OK to feel that way.
Author: Semko, Laura
Date Last Reviewed: 02/01/2020
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